

Instead, we’re given a complicated web of relationships, and while each one does, in true Rooney style, speak volumes about our own human experiences, none are remotely desirable. You’re not going to find the crackling chemistry of Connell and Marianne in this series. The love we had for Normal People definitely fuelled the hype for Conversations With Friends, and that is what may ultimately be its demise.

There was a lot of hype around Conversations With Friends, the Sally Rooney adaptation of arguably her second-most famous novel, the first being (of course) 2020’s blockbuster Normal People. Thankfully I persisted, because this is a series that improves, although whether it’s enough to capture its audience is debatable. The first episode left me so bored that I almost gave up – the only reason I didn’t was because I knew I’d be writing this review, and didn’t want to do it (and you readers) a disservice.

“There’s something nice about that for the neurotic individualist.” Her faith is as toothless and theoretical as Frances’ communism, just another collective vision that goes nowhere.At first, I hated Conversations With Friends. Nick scornfully remarks that “no one who likes Yeats is capable of human intimacy.” (A Yeats fan might reply that these characters aren’t winning any human intimacy awards either.) And Melissa considers religious occasions “comforting in a kind of sedative way.” “They’re communal,” she tells the young women. They are all thrillingly sharp, hyperverbal, as when Frances observes that “Bobbi and I discussed at length what Bobbi would wear to the dinner, under the guise of talking about what we should both wear.” Conversations With Friends unfolds in an Ireland plundered by the 2008 financial crisis, a country in which the old constants-Catholicism, a national poetry, alcoholism-appear fleetingly, as contrails and vestiges. Bobbi, Frances, Nick, and Melissa excel at endearing banter and hesitant, vulnerable disclosure. Rooney herself is acute and sensitive-she may have pinned these fragile creatures to a board, but her eye is not cruel.
